Is monogamy natural?

For some couples it is. For others, monogamy results in a very unnatural, confining relationship. Many psychologists, counselors and other experts agree that for some couples, a more open relationship works, and works well. How is it that many people in our society who have never tried swinging will accept, forgive and sometimes even encourage a friend who is lying to their spouse and having an affair, yet judge a swinger as a bad person even when they participate in these activities with the total consent and participation of their mate. It seems to be a bit of a double standard. I have been in the swing club business for many years, and I have seen very few affairs and almost no divorces. It just isn't common in this lifestyle. When you enter a swing club for the first time, you may have many preconceived notions about what kind of people go to "these kinds of places. What you will find in most swing clubs will surprise you. Most swingers are nice, normal people, just like you. You probably already know someone who is involved in swinging, and more times than not it will be someone you never suspected. Even your close friends, or the professional you have dealt with for years might go to swing clubs. Most swingers keep what they do to themselves in their daily lives because swinging is not well accepted or understood in our society. I know swingers who are doctors, teachers, high-tech professionals and blue-collar workers. I honestly cannot think of any career that is not represented within the swinging community. The one thing almost all swingers have in common is honesty and great communication. They are honest about sexual issues with the one person that many people in relationships find it most difficult to be honest with -- their own spouse or partner. If you are considering swinging because you have a bad marriage or relationship and are looking for a quick fix, look elsewhere or seek counseling. If, however, you are a committed couple looking to add some spice in the bedroom, if you are not insecure or unreasonably jealous by nature, and if you and your partner want to make some wonderful new friends, this might be just the place for you. Most of our couples are self-proclaimed best friends, and they really mean it. And, in case you're wondering, you don't have to have a perfect 10 body, either. Sexiness is largely a matter of attitude. We cater to all types of couples from those who are classically beautiful to those who are uniquely beautiful. Everyone has the right to feel sexy, and everyone who wants to enjoy the swinging lifestyle experience is welcome here. Friends does not promote an anything goes atmosphere. People are playful and respectful but no means no. Friends is a place to meet others who share your open-minded view about sexuality, and to explore the possibilities. Many sexy, sensual, erotic experiences are possible. All it takes to get started is a friendly hello and a genuine desire to make new friends. What follows can be anything you want it to be -- from conversation, flirting, and sexy dancing, to voyeurism, exhibitionism and so much more --all in a no-pressure nightclub setting
The majority of the couples who come here don't think of Friends as just a nightclub or a swing club. This is their club and new friends are always welcome. So come on out and let Friends show you what everyoneis talking about. We want to be your Friends.

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